10 TIPS How to Get People to Like You in 30 Seconds or LESS
Look people in the Eye
You know, yourself, that when you meet someone and they won’t look you in the eye, it sends off an automatic red flag signal.
So, turn this around to your own benefit, and look people in the eye.
Don’t stare and make them feel uncomfortable - simply gaze into their eyes briefly every now and then.
Because most people believe that the eyes are the windows of your soul, you are in essence offering your own “windows of the soul.” This makes a big statement that you’ve nothing to hide.
David J. Lieberman, Ph.D., in his best-selling book, Get Anyone to do Anything and Never Feel Powerless Again, quotes a study that shows the power of “eye gazing,” as related to falling in love.
In this study, people of the opposite sex simply gazed into each other’s eyes for a few moments and that was enough to produce passionate feelings for each other!
Of course you want to be careful what situation you use
this in, but why not get those eyeballs working for you?
Casual direct glances into the eyes will produce trust.